Does The Heart Know When We Meet Someone Special?

Written By: Christopher May No Comment

Match.com has been a blessing when guiding my life towards finding love, affection and enriching companionship. At first, I was skeptical that one could find real love using internet dating sites like Match.com. But the measure of success is decided by the results, wouldn’t you agree?

If we listen with the “ears of the heart” when meeting someone new, then yes, all good things are possible. If we listen to our hearts, then there is a knowingness that the special someone has been found. It’s a cause for a celebration. The heart always knows which way to go. The heart tells us if someone is worth investing our time, energy and life in. However, you cannot hear if the music isn’t playing for both of the partners. And, that is where Match.com comes in. It gets the party started.

Trisha and I met through Match.com. When I met my partner on our first date, I knew there was a deep connection between us. And, she felt the same way. It took some time for that experience to sink in. But, early on our hearts knew that this was to be a real connection. Without the Match.com as a meeting ground to find one another we likely would never have met.

Our first date was at a bookstore half way between the two of our homes. We met at a Barnes & Noble for coffee at about 7 p.m. on a Wednesday evening after having visited on the phone and traded e-mails for more than a month. She had just arrived at Barnes & Noble, bought herself one of those sweet, girly drinks with lots of sugar and cream on top, and sat down. I came along a few minutes later, sat down across from her and started talking to her. After only 10 minutes I cocked my head to the right and gave her a little bit of look as if to say, “hmm…something’s going on here beyond what meets the eye.”

The first date only lasted about 10 minutes because she received a phone call from a family member urgently asking her to come home because her mother was seriously ill. It took some time to figure out what was it was that we both sensed. But in time, we began to see clearly what the heart and intuitional feelings told us all along.

The heart was correct. How do we both know there was some connection without having experienced time together? The heart only knows. We often sense deeper truths when listening to a great person speak or while reading a book, or listening to beautiful music. These truths can always be part of the words but they can be felt were sentenced. The same kind of experience happens in dating iwth Match.com. But, it cannot happen if we are not at the party. You’ve got to get in the dating scene to play.

There are few joys greater than finding a special partner to spend you life with. Match.com did that for us. Match.com can work for you if you work it.

Many times we don’t listen to our heart that’s when we make poor choices. It might make for better dating if we listen to the heart first, and then the head. If we combine how we feel about the person and the situation and what we logically think we should do then success if more likely. The blend of these two parts of ourselves is important, but the heart usually leads the way to the best decisions when dating or in any other major life decision.

Trisha and I met through Match.com in 2006. If anyone asks me if match.com works I would say, yes IF you follow your heart. If you use Match.com just like shopping for groceries, then you might fall into a few potholes now and then. But, if you use listen to your intuition and heart as well, then you will likely be guided to find real love, real happiness.

If you asked me if Match.com works in helping you find happiness, love and a fulfilling relationship, I’d answer yes.

Wishing you happiness and love,

Christopher Lee May