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		<title>Discounts for I Can Do It Toronto Conference 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 00:30:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Join us in beautiful Toronto Canada in the for your life-changing, healing and joy filled retreat and spiritual conference. We want to make it easier for you to see your favorite, New York Times best-selling spiritual or inspirational authors, so we’re presenting the I Can Do It! Toronto Canada 2010 conference for later May are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Join us in beautiful Toronto Canada in the for your life-changing, healing and joy filled retreat and spiritual conference. </p>
<p>We want to make it easier for you to see your favorite, New York Times best-selling spiritual or inspirational authors, so we’re presenting the I Can Do It! Toronto Canada 2010 conference for later May are gone, but you can still get a discounted rate if you hurry! If you register today, you will receive pricing for as low as $35!  Plus, you will have the opportunity to learn from some of the biggest names in the self-improvement movement. </p>
<p>Come for the day, for an evening, or the entire weekend. This is a life changing opportunity to spend time with some of the most thought provoking, uplifting and inspirational teachers of our modern age.  Attendees have often remarked that this is one of the most enriching event that they look forward to, and YOU won’t want to miss it either! </p>
<p>You will learn more about how to increase positive self-love, enrich your self-esteem, cultivate deeper self-acceptance, discover expanding love in your life and awaken the skills for better relationships.  These are great teachers with great lessons, tips and tricks to share about how to live the kind of life you have always dreamed of.</p>
<p>Could you use some inspiration in your life right now?</p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t it feel great to have your emotional, mental and spiritual self rejuvenated?</p>
<p>Discover and rediscover yourself over and over! Bring a friend, a spouse, or just yourself. With over 24 amazing inspirational and uplifting authors and over 24 sessions to choose from. You’ll want to be part of this unique and uplifting opportunity to recharge and rejuvenate yourself. </p>
<p>Learn from the masters. You’ll get the opportunity to see the internationally renowned, best-selling authors, many of whom have appeared on Oprah, Good Morning America, The Today Show, CNN, and many thousands of local TV and Radio show.  </p>
<p>Here is the  current author line-up which will thrill you to your core: </p>
<p>Sylvia Browne<br />
Caroline Myss<br />
Louise L. Hay<br />
Joan Z. Borysenko, Ph.D.<br />
Gregg Braden<br />
Sonia Choquette<br />
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer<br />
Robert Holden, Ph.D.<br />
Byron Katie<br />
Deborah King<br />
Loretta LaRoche<br />
Denise Linn<br />
Bruce H. Lipton, Ph.D.<br />
Thomas Moore<br />
Dr. Christiane Northrup<br />
Marcelle Pick<br />
Cheryl Richardson<br />
Caroline Sutherland<br />
Eldon Taylor<br />
Brian L. Weiss, M.D.<br />
Marianne Williamson<br />
Linda Tucker<br />
Marci Shimoff<br />
Dan Caro  </p>
<p>In addition, you’ll be able to attend riveting workshops, sit in on live radio shows, and enjoy spiritual nourishment at the May 2010 I Can Do It! Toronto conference. We look forward to seeing you soon! </p>
<p><a href="http://affiliate.hayhouse.com/Emails/2009/icditampa09_2276378.htm">Click on this link</a> now to learn more, and purchase tickets.</p>
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		<title>Finding and Keeping Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 19:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Finding Love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[learn about the skills it takes to love in the best and most healthy ways possible]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finding and Keeping Love by Harville Hendrix This classical, timely and life changing course on how to find and keep love is something I want everyone to own and use. It has benefited tens of thousands of students of love and relationships! Why not you? In this life changing course by Harville Hendrix called, Finding [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding and Keeping Love by Harville Hendrix</p>
<p>This classical, timely and life changing course on how to find and keep love is something I want everyone to own and use.  It has benefited tens of thousands of students of love and relationships! Why not you?</p>
<p>In this life changing course by Harville Hendrix called, Finding and Keeping Love: An Imago-Based Program for Getting the Love You Want you will have a complete map for relationship building.  This course is so well loved that it is used by therapists, social workers and psychologists alike.  Why not by you as well?</p>
<p>Everyone needs guidance regarding love. Sometimes love is easy, and then begins the adjustments, growth, lessons on power sharing, how to listen, how to express yourself without harming your partner.  </p>
<p>I highly recommend this course for anyone no matter what stage you are in your relationships, i.e., beginning, middle or ending a love relationship. It is so important to learn about the skills it takes to love in the best and most healthy ways possible.</p>
<p>Here are some good details on the program which has been time tested&#8230;</p>
<p>In the field of relationship psychology, Harville Hendrix has transformed our understanding of what makes us fall in love—and what makes it last. His Imago Relationship therapy, co-created with his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, is a proven healing process now used by more than 2,000 therapists worldwide. With Finding and Keeping Love, this world-renowned relationship therapist brings you the most important practices and insights from Imago therapy distilled from more than three decades of working with singles, couples, and parents. </p>
<p>To pick up your copy of Find and Keeping Love, on sale at 28% off, <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/relationships/af01280d.html">click here now</a>, and we&#8217;ll get one off to you asap.</p>
<p>Whether you’re still looking for that special person or you’re already in a committed relationship, here is a program to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the vital ingredients for deep and lasting love. </p>
<p>CE credits available for social workers, therapists, psychologists!<br />
» Learn more » Calculate how many credits you can earn, click here </p>
<p>To own your copy of Find and Keeping Love, <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/relationships/af01280d.html">click here now</a>, and we&#8217;ll get one off to you asap.</p>
<p>The Imago Approach: Understand Love at Its Deepest Level </p>
<p>What causes us to fall in love? Although you may have a conscious idea of the traits you’re attracted to, Harville Hendrix teaches that there is an even more powerful force in the subconscious mind that defines your ideal partner: the “Imago.” This is an image that lives in your deep psyche, created during your childhood from both your happiest and most difficult experiences with your caretakers. </p>
<p>To pick up your copy of Find and Keeping Love, <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/relationships/af01280d.html">click here now</a>, and we&#8217;ll get one off to you asap.</p>
<p>To help you develop an awakened approach to relationship, Dr. Hendrix provides you with practical techniques for seeing how your Imago was formed, learning what qualities you truly seek in a mate, and becoming aware of the subconscious forces that ignite the spark of romance. </p>
<p>But what happens when romance wears off? Dr. Hendrix explains that when our idealized projections dissolve and we start to know our partners for who they really are, the relationship enters a “power struggle.” Navigating the turbulent waters of this critical time requires us to learn a new way of communicating, one that he calls “Imago dialogue.” Through step-by-step instruction and guided exercises, Dr. Hendrix teaches you this critical skill for open and honest discourse—where each partner expresses their needs without criticism or negativity—in order to build the foundations for mature, passionate, and unbreakable love. </p>
<p>Our search for love is “our most important human project,” teaches Harville Hendrix. It is through the sweet and sacred power of relationship that we can find true healing, complete the unfinished business of childhood, and return to our natural wholeness. Join this trusted expert on Finding and Keeping Love for a complete home-study course to learn the key insights and skills for building a successful relationship—and to realize the true love you were meant to have. </p>
<p>Find and Keeping Love is a 6 CD, fun and life enriching 6 hours, 30 minutes relationship tool box full of great insights, tips and tricks on how to make love last.</p>
<p>To pick up your copy of Find and Keeping Love, on sale at 28% off,<a href="http://www.fourgates.com/relationships/af01280d.html">click here now</a>, and we&#8217;ll get one off to you asap.</p>
<p>To your life being enriched by lasting love,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
<p>PS: As of this writing, 11/12/09, shipping is free, but we cannot guarantee that offer forever, so order today.</p>
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		<title>A New Book About Fulfilling Your Soul&#8217;s Purpose</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 16:10:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Finding Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Healing Love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[author Ping Li]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Awakening Fulfilling Your Soul's Purpose]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[connect with your divine essence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[deep fulfillment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tranform your reality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unlimited abundance]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In the just released book, Awakening: Fulfilling Your Soul&#8217;s Purpose on Earth, you&#8217;ll discover how to tap into your inner wisdom and the infinite universe to gain valuable insights and knowledge about who you really are at all levels &#8211; physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. Author Ping Li has included practical exercises and guidance in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the just released book, Awakening: Fulfilling Your Soul&#8217;s Purpose on Earth, you&#8217;ll discover how to tap into your inner wisdom and the infinite universe to gain valuable insights and knowledge about who you really are at all levels &#8211; physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.  </p>
<p>Author Ping Li has included practical exercises and guidance in every chapter designed to help you connect with your divine essence and align your beliefs, perceptions, intentions, feelings, choices, actions, words, and your personality with this inner truth. You will find that you can transform your reality and manifest all that you truly desire in life: pure love, unlimited abundance, deep fulfillment . . . and much more.</p>
<p>Now, I&#8217;m celebrating a fellow author&#8217;s book launch on Amazon today and when you buy just one copy of her my book within the next 24-HOURS(starting on the morning of  Sept. 15th, 2009) Ping Lin has include loads of amazing free gifts valued at $8,400.00 donated by myself, her other author friends and colleagues. She has also included some her own bonus gift when you purchase a copy of the book.</p>
<p>These bonus gifts are about how to cultivate your deepest levels of happiness, prosperity, better relationships, improve your quality of life, increasing hope and joy in every aspect of daily living.  You can find all of it at here <a href="http://www.awakeningbooklaunch.com/bookpromo.html. ">Awakening website</a> by clicking here today.</p>
<p>Yes, You CAN Be Both Spiritually AND Materially Prosperous, and cultivate a love energy in your life that attracts more of what you want, and less of what you do not want!</p>
<p>Ping Li’s new book AWAKENING: Fulfilling Your Soul’s Purpose On Earth shows you how! You can learn more about her book, read about the bonus gifts, and more by visiting her <a href="http://www.awakeningbooklaunch.com/bookpromo.html. ">Awakening website</a>.  This is a win-win campaign to help Ping Li get the word out about her wonderful new book, and thank the readers who help jump start sales of Awakening. </p>
<p>If confusion, lack of direction, or any of Life’s little (or large) blows have ever knocked you off the path to a life of your dreams, let Ping show you the way back. Through this series of Daily Meditations, Journaling, and Mental Exercises, Ping Li takes you on a 22-Day adventure to a more loving relationship, peace &#038; tranquility, and wealth. </p>
<p>Harness the POWER of such Natural Laws as: Attraction, Giving &#038; Receiving, and Manifestation! Align YOUR objectives with those that God and the universe have in mind for you … and a life of Joy, Happiness, and Riches can be yours EFFORTLESSLY! </p>
<p>Remember, that when you purchase a copy on Amazon.com of AWAKENING: Fulfilling Your Soul’s Purpose On Earth by midnight, September 15, and you’ll also receive DOZENS of Fast-Action Bonus Gifts that have been set aside for you! </p>
<p>I hope this book and all of the free $8,400.00 worth of bonuses provides great benefit in your life. On behalf of Ping, let me say thank your for joining the list of readers who will get some wonderful free stuff and share in her wisdom captured in the book.</p>
<p>To Your Health and Happiness,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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		<title>Are You Ready for a Relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:36:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Finding Love]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are three questions each of us needs to answer as we begin looking for a new relationship or even if currently in one. Without asking these three questions you will sooner or later hit the wall on the journey through the relationship. These three questions involve being ready, willing and able to be in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are three questions each of us needs to answer as we begin looking for a new relationship or even if currently in one.  Without asking these three questions you will sooner or later hit the wall on the journey through the relationship. These three questions involve being ready, willing and able to be in a positive, healthy or constructive relationship rich with love, good communication and respect.</p>
<p>Ask yourself these questions in a quiet way, with a motivation of friendship rather than judgment or criticism.  Often times writing down the answers on paper clarifies the perspective you are going to share with yourself, or a friend.</p>
<p>1. Am I ready to be in a relationship?</p>
<p>If you have been in a relationship before, or have significant challenges from sibling and parental relationships, there may be some clearing that needs to take place.  When building a house the land needs to be cleared of old stumps, boulders, and debris from past geological activity.   The area where you build the relationship foundation must be level, solid and suitable for building.</p>
<p>The same is true of being in a relationship. If there are hurts or traumas, anger and resentment these negative wounds will be brought into the new relationship causing obstacles to harmonious living.  Unless you deal with the past wounds through forgiveness and releasing them, a new relationship with compound the hurts by creating new emotional wounds where the old scars exist.</p>
<p>2. Am I able to be in a new relationship?</p>
<p>Relationships require good communication that is 70% listening, and 30% sharing your views, needs and requests.  Most of the reasons for failed relationships begin and end with poor communication.   Communication is the fueling process that makes relationships move.  Affection, tenderness and sexual fulfillment is not enough.  Love grows in an atmosphere of trust, honoring one another and acting on requests for positive changes.</p>
<p>We are able to function in a good, strong and healthy relationship when we can give and receive love, respect and honor one another.  This is a two way street with one lane for sending out your requests and wishes, and the other lane for listening and receiving the requests of others.  Maintain that two-lane road on a daily basis to avoid potholes developing.</p>
<p>3. Am I willing to be in a relationship?  </p>
<p>Willingness means having openness towards creating a sacred space for someone to enter.  If you hang on to past hurts, have a mind full of judgment or criticism, then willingness is lacking.  </p>
<p>Often times being in a state of willingness means we have dealt with fears about ourselves, our worthiness, our self-love.  Our society does not readily foster healthy self-love and as a result we feel unworthy or unlovable.  As such, there may be a tendency to push people away because of a defensive strategy.  </p>
<p>The plan of action always begins with, is maintained by and ends with loving oneself.  If you make friends with yourself, express forgiveness towards others, seeing them as individuals who are also on a journey of discovery, then loving relationships become easier to maintain.</p>
<p>You would never take your car on a journey without good maintenance, checking the tires, making sure the engine was running smoothly.  Why are relationships any different?  They aren&#8217;t.</p>
<p>You deserve to be love, and others deserve the same.  If we keep our emotional world tuned up, then love will blossom because the ground in which we grow that love is clear of obstacles.</p>
<p>I encourage all of my friends and clients to express gratitude each day to foster a healthy relationship with yourself, and those around you.  Gratitude is the king of all health and healing.</p>
<p>Before you start any on-line dating on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a>, or any other dating site. Be sure to check-in with yourself to be clear about where you stand. If you do this, it will give you many options for a happy and healthy relationship.</p>
<p>Another resource I encourge you to use is the <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/1-4019-0734-2.html">Law of Attraction</a> which teaches you how to attract more of what you want and leave behind that which you do not want. Education for success is important.</p>
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		<title>Can Angels Guide us to Better Romantic Relationships?</title>
		<link>http://lovemattersmost.net/angels-guide-romantic-relationships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Aug 2009 00:30:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Can angels guide us to better romantic relationships?</strong></p>
<p>Is there a source of love energy we can draw upon in times of need?</p>
<p>Do our needs for greater love, a deeper love connection and happiness really matter to the angels?</p>
<p><strong>What do you think?</strong></p>
<p>If angels are messengers from God who wish to see the expression of more love in the world, I would say YES, they do concern themselves with whether we are happy. One of the main wishes of all great teachers is that we live with love more abundantly.  Angels can guide us towards better and more loving relationships IF we reach out and ask for guidance.</p>
<p><strong>Angels are always here to lend a hand.</strong>  Angels are a source of:</p>
<p>* Guidance about how to make good decisions when we are struggling to find or maintain a loving relationship,</p>
<p>* <strong>Inspiration for choosing to live in alignment</strong> with our conscience and better self,</p>
<p>* Protection in times of danger, distress or real need,</p>
<p>* <strong>Healing energy when experience physical, emotional or mental trauma </strong>- many people report that a feeling came over them after intense prayer, or meditation when asking for healing.</p>
<p>* Prosperity when seeking information about making big decisions financially &#8211; our stability in work, career and affair regards money are the concern of angels,</p>
<p>* <strong>Relationship coaching when we are uncertain</strong> which path to take in making decisions &#8211; but we must ask and listen for the guidance,</p>
<p>Let me introduce to Doreen Virtue. Doreen is one of the most skillful angel therapists teaching in the spiritual and personal growth areas of life. She has devoted much of her adult life to helping people understand the path to communication with angels.</p>
<p><strong>Doreen Virtue holds B.A., M.A., and Ph.D. degrees in counseling psychology</strong>, and is a lifelong clairvoyant who works with the angelic realm. She has written a large selection of books on the subject of angels.</p>
<p><strong>Doreen will be teaching at the International Angel Day</strong>. The International Angel Day is a special one-day event that celebrates the magic of the angels. Everyone has guardian angels, and these angels perform God&#8217;s will of peace, protection, healing and guidance for us all. When we open ourselves to hear our angels&#8217; messages, every aspect of our lives become more peaceful. </p>
<p>&#8220;During this inspiring day, you will learn to connect with your angels who have important spiritual guidance for you about your career, relationships, health, prosperity, spiritual growth, the path of your soul towards complete realization of your inner potential and more.  Charles Virtue, the friendly Hay House staff and I all look forward to seeing you there!&#8221;    — Doreen Virtue</p>
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<p>Celebrate International Angel Day in Los Angeles!<br />
Date: September 12, 2009<br />
Time: 10:00 a.m. &#8211; 5:00 p.m.<br />
Los Angeles, CA<br />
Location: Wilshire Ebell Theatre<br />
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<p><strong>The angels want to heal and help every area of your life</strong>. In this<br />
Entertaining and inspirational session, Doreen will give audience angel readings and guide you through angel communication methods. Her clairvoyant son, Charles, will teach about a newly discovered archangel who assists you in making powerful and amazing changes in your life. Both Doreen and Charles will help you to awaken your natural psychic and healing abilities. This event will conclude with a powerful Angel Therapy® healing session to help you release blocks, negativity,<br />
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<p>In this fascinating angel retreat, Doreen and Charles teach you how to understand the signs that are always around you from your spirit guides and angels. </p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t miss this opportunity to join us</strong> this year on September 12, 2009 to spend an entire day learning about the fascinating subject of angels.  People have been seeking this inspirational information to more deeply connect with the kingdom of angels.  This is an interactive one day angel retreat where Doreen Virtue takes questions, and provides some group sessions with the audience.</p>
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		<title>If You Want More Love, Give More Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 15:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If You Want More Love, Give More Love</p>
<p>It seems like a contradiction when reading or hearing that if we want more love in our lives then we need to give more love.  Typically, we might often believe that just asking for more love will draw it into our lives.  The truth is like attracts like.  Giving love attracts more love into our heart, mind and spirit.</p>
<p>One of the best examples of giving with love was Mother Teresa (August 26, 1910 – September 5, 1997) a Catholic nun who spent much of her life serving others.  For more than 45 years she ministered to the destitute, the poorest of the poor as she used to say.  She and her groups of nuns served the sick with enthusiasm and love.  They cared for little children who were orphaned, and she even developed a hospice division of service especially for the dying. Her work initially began in India but at the time of her passing away in 1997 Mother Teresa&#8217;s programs were operating 610 missions in 123 countries.  Mother Teresa spread a blanket of love over the world touching everyone she and her nuns could reach.</p>
<p>She was loved my hundreds of millions, even billions of people throughout the world.  So what does this have to do with you and I? </p>
<p>Mother Teresa was an example of the practice of giving more love.  Her model taught that when we give more love, we receive more love.  </p>
<p>Love is energy. Love must flow to grow.  If the supply of love in our lives is smaller than we desire, the best thing we can do is connect with more people in as many ways as possible.  Each person needs to find the connections, which mean most to him or her, and then nourish those relationships with love.</p>
<p>There is a great story from one of my spiritual teachers in which two masters are walking in the desert by the light of the moon.  At one point they seem to have lost their way.  One of the masters asks the other, &#8220;Lord, we have lost our way, which direction should we go?&#8221; The Teacher replied, &#8220;what does the way matter to us friend when the entire world needs us.&#8221;  If we have lost our way and wish for more love consider the needs of those around you.</p>
<p>Sometimes connecting with others is a simple as a kind word, a warm smile, providing encouragement to a friend or family member who has lost love in their lives.  During times of strain economically in our country so many are deeply stressed about their uncertain future.  Find someone who could use some support, and give them your kindness, compassion and encouragement. Each act of service to help someone else creates live giving energy both for the person expressing support through some loving act, and the person who is struggling.</p>
<p>When I worked in hospice 10 years ago, it struck me that when people are sick and dying, they seem to receive fewer hugs, and less physical touch.  However, this is the time when feeling love from others is most needed. It is important to provide a sense of well being to another person through hugging them, holding hands, an arm around their shoulder.  One hospice volunteer was a massage therapist who organized a team of other massage therapists to give massages to hospice patients. She instinctively knew that touch, even though a small gesture was healing.</p>
<p>One of my favorite studies is the one from an orphanage in Russia many decades ago in which they began to monitor why some of the children were growing up taller, and some were smaller.  The smaller children had higher mortality rates, with some dying in infancy. Hospital staff began to ask what was the cause of this trend.  As they researched further it came to light that some groups of babies were not getting pick up and held early in infancy.  As the trend continued in late baby stages the effects of being &#8220;ignored&#8221; had already begun to take effect with early deaths, and then followed by slow growth rates.  The babies who had not been held grew 25-30% less with immune deficiencies.  For us to feel healthy and loved we need to be touched, held, hugged.  Some call this a &#8220;skin hunger&#8221;, meaning we need to be loved through touch to be happy and healthy.</p>
<p>Each of us can do so much to contribute to the welfare of others.  When we plant good karmic seeds of love they certainly will sprout into a garden of blooms bright with the colors of love.</p>
<p>When using Match.com for dating I noticed that dating profiles seldom mentioned what a person was going to give, but more often discussed what they wanted.   A dating profile is a love resume, which is best, focused on what we can give to a relationship with a smaller emphasis on what we want to receive.  Relationships are ultimately a form of service to one another, giving and receiving love based on mutual connection.  </p>
<p>Few truths are truer than if we want more love, then give more love.</p>
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		<title>Law of Attraction and Love &#8211; How To Attract The Perfect Partner</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:48:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Law Of Attraction: A Day with Abraham-Hicks </strong> with Esther &#038; Jerry Hicks Live 2009 Tour, and save 10% off tickets. </p>
<p>Law of Attraction Tour Dates: August 1, 2009 &#8211; September 26, 2009<br />
Location: USA, see below.</p>
<p><strong>It’s Just a Matter of Allowing It to Happen!</strong> Learn from the authors who inspired the wildly successful movie and book The Secret.</p>
<p>You’ve heard about the Law of Attraction, but do you really know how to apply it to your own life? How does it work? How do you keep your thoughts focused on what you want? How do you drive negative thoughts away?</p>
<p><strong>Discover the Most Powerful Law of the Universe</strong> with Best-selling Authors Esther and Jerry Hicks—and ABRAHAM!  Do you wish to have more love, increased prosperity, great spiritual connection, increased levels of happiness, then join the Law of Attraction sessions to get your questions answered.</p>
<p>Join best-selling authors Esther and Jerry Hicks for this captivating all-day workshop where they will give you all the tools you need to attract whatever you want in your life—all through the inspiring, heart-warming, stirring, thought-provoking and life-changing wisdom of Abraham!  </p>
<p><strong>Law of Attraction and Love </strong>- How To Attract The Perfect Partner is only one of the insights you&#8217;ll gain by listening to Abraham-Hicks answer questions live on their tour. Love matters a great deal but so does success in all areas of your life, including career, finances, health and spirituality.  Ask and receive answers from the author of several best selling books.</p>
<p><strong>Click on any link to get your tickets.</strong></p>
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<p>We have set up this 10% off discount code 3061 to provide your customers with 10% off of any live Hay House sponsored event for the remaining 2009-year (expires 12/31/09 and can be applied to web orders only). </p>
<p><strong>Here is what to do to </strong>secure your place in this highly sought after angel workshop:</p>
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		<title>Love is What Matters Most Each Day of Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 03:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love is what matters most each day of life. If we remember the Presence of Love when times are challenging, and hold in our hearts compassion for others, you can do so much in life. You are never alone &#8211; Love is always there with you. Whether you are dating on Match.com, or have found [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love is what matters most each day of life.  If we remember the Presence of Love when times are challenging, and hold in our hearts compassion for others, you can do so much in life. You are never alone &#8211; Love is always there with you.</p>
<p>Whether you are dating on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a>, or have found a love with someone that nurtures you, keep you roots in the heart of love inside you.  This is where the source of love is most stable, steady and dependable.</p>
<p>Start each day with gratitudue for all of the love, health, happiness and blessings your enjoy.  This is what sustains your connection to the love between you and your partner, your family and friends.  If you have love, you have everything. But, if you have everything but not love, then you have nothing.</p>
<p>I was watching a show called The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist with Michael J. Fox. It is airing on the TLC channel. Michael Fox  travels the globe speaking with people about the power of hope, optimism and connection to one another.  Everyone he spoke with, whether they be dairy farmers in upstate New York, playing golf with Bill Murry or standing on street corner with a upbeat black guy 2 blocks from his house (who hands out free newspapers with a wish for a great day to those entering the sub-way) or Lance Armstrong speaking about facing cancer &#8211; everyone agreed that happiness was the most important thing.  Each of them spoke about the importance of coming together, about hope, about the power of love in their lives.  </p>
<p>If you are dating on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a> you need to feel love before you can find it in others.  Love is a great magnet that draws all good things to you, and through you. I found love through Match.com but I first had to feel a deep connection within. No one can fill that hole in your heart but you, and your Higher Power, or connection to Divine Love.  It is subtle but powerful thing to consider.</p>
<p>Holding on to an optimistic view that Love is always right there on the tip of your tongue, present in your next breath, in the sunrise, in the song of birds.  When you open to the Great Love with optimism and hope, then love will find you either on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a>, or right around the corner.</p>
<p>The trick in finding love is to give love away everyday, and then it will find you. Your smile, your heart, your inner joy and good heartedness is powerful because these parts of your are connected to love energy.</p>
<p>To Loving Everyday, in Every Way,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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		<title>When You&#8217;re Feeling Hurt, Gratitude Brings Back The Love Connection</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 16:11:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Finding Love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[10 practices for remaining grateful]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being in love, maintaining loving relationships, or romantic relationships, and seeking new love relationships can all provide opportunities to to feel discouraged. Sometimes a loved one let us down, hurts our feelings, brakes promises. Painfull feelings, anger and resentment often are the first reactions when the let downs occur. Is there a way to feel [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being in love, maintaining loving relationships, or romantic relationships, and seeking new love relationships can all provide opportunities to to feel discouraged.  Sometimes a loved one let us down, hurts our feelings, brakes promises.  Painfull feelings, anger and resentment often are the first reactions when the let downs occur.  Is there a way to feel better in tough times while moving towards the positive feelings and conection we long for?</p>
<p>When the going gets tough, it is a challenge to feel gratitude for the obstacles, and to stay in a loving place in life.  But it is exactly when things are difficult that applying a perspective of gratitude is needed to move you forward back into the feeling of connection, of love, of tenderness and hope.  Gratitude focuses the mind on the present moment, on blessings, the good, the benefits, what we have, what we are, how our lives are blessed in hundreds of ways.  Gratitude is mindfulness of the many good moments that we enjoy. And, this state of gratitude opens the doors and windows of our mind to new possibilities.</p>
<p>Before asking for what we want it so important to open the heart and mind to the splendor of our lives.  Gratitude opens the door to new possibilities, great opportunity, increased prosperity, deeper love and strong connections. Gratitude releases us to activate the Law of Attraction because it draws us closer to the prefered state of being.</p>
<p>Here is a practice I use as often as possible which you can use as well. Insert other phrases or experiences to focus on if you&#8217;d like&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;I awake with gratitude, work with gratitude, enjoy the company of others with deep gratitude, drink a glass of water with gratitude for the wonder of water, and appreciate those who read this with heart felt gratitude. I shower my world with gratitude and extend it to those around me.&#8221;</p>
<p>Training the mind to be aware of gratitude is an on-going process. Take time each day to for increased benefit.  Increased happiness come as a result of shifting the mind into the awareness of massive blessings in our lives as often as possible. </p>
<p>For most of us, gratitude comes easy when things are going well. But putting it into practice when life throws you a curve ball is another story. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.fourgates.com/W1320W.html">On Gratitude: The Essential Practice for Happiness and Fulfillment</a>, cultural anthropologist and educator Angeles Arrien shows you how to cultivate the power of deep appreciation so that it becomes a way of life—simply and naturally. Integrating the newest social science research with stories, prayers, insights, and practices from cultures and traditions spanning the world, Arrien gives you the time-tested wisdom to help you master the art of giving thanks, every day. </p>
<p>The 3 Cd&#8217;s audio series <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/W1320W.html">On Gratitude</a> invites you to explore these wonderful topics:</p>
<p>* How to overcome habitual tendencies toward envy, comparison, and narcissism </p>
<p>* The top 10 practices for remaining grateful, including keeping a gratitude journal, “remembering the bad to appreciate the good,” and regularly writing notes and letters of thanks </p>
<p>* Naikan—the Japanese Buddhist practice of intensely meditating on your interconnections to develop a steady flow of gratitude in relationships </p>
<p>* Indigenous teachings about using daydreams and wishes to create a spirit of healing and blessing </p>
<p>Recent studies show that daily gratitude practice significantly changes your life, improving sleep, overall energy, and emotional well-being.  Gratitude can active the Law of Attraction in your life, bring in what you ask for and washing away hurts, complaints and dis-empowering thoughts.</p>
<p>With <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/W1320W.html">Gratitude</a>, Angeles Arrien offers you an inspiring call to open your heart and experience the profound gifts that come when we fully embrace gratitude.</p>
<p>We are grateful for good teachers who offer reminders of the importance of gratitude, the king of all positive qualities.</p>
<p>Go here to pick up a copy of <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/W1320W.html">Gratitude<br />
The Essential Practice for Happiness and Fulfillment</a></p>
<p>With <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/W1320W.html">Gratitude</a> for You and All That You Offer To Those Around You,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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		<title>Self-esteem Leads You To Love and Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 23:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Self-esteem is often described as the basic feeling or state of mental and emotional well being . Self-esteem produces a sense of your worth. In other words, you experience your sense of &#8220;I have value&#8221;, &#8221; I am worthy of love and respect&#8221;, &#8220;I deserve a better job&#8221;, &#8220;I have earned that raise&#8221;, from your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Self-esteem is often described as the basic feeling or state of mental and emotional well being </strong>. Self-esteem produces a sense of your worth.  In other words, you experience your sense of &#8220;I have value&#8221;, &#8221; I am worthy of love and respect&#8221;, &#8220;I deserve a better job&#8221;, &#8220;I have earned that raise&#8221;, from your healthy self-esteem.</p>
<p>Self-esteem inevitably leads to your ability to receive love, respect or admiration from others, as well as to give love, respect and admiration to others.  When self-esteem is intact, we feel good about your place in the world in relation to ourselves or family, friends and social acquaintances. The foundation of our sense of well-being is largely based on self-esteem.</p>
<p><strong>If want a better paying job, you must have strong self-esteem.</strong></p>
<p>Is self-esteem important for love, happiness and success in the work world? Sure, it is. </p>
<p><strong>There is an old saying, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know how to describe it,</strong> but I know it when I see it&#8221;.  Does that describe self-esteem for you?</p>
<p>We can often describe self-esteem as a result of the by-products of good self-esteem.  A few of these traits are:</p>
<p>* <strong>The ability to ask for your needs to be met</strong></p>
<p>* Having realistic expectations in relationships</p>
<p>* <strong>Asserting independence in decision making</strong></p>
<p>* Knowing how to describe yourself in a positive way, both vices, or negative qualities, and virtues, or positive qualities.</p>
<p>* <strong>The ability to receive constructive criticism without reacting</strong></p>
<p>* Having the skills of listening and communicating in a healthy way</p>
<p>* <strong>Self-respect, but also respecting others</strong></p>
<p>* The ability to say yes when appropriate requests are made</p>
<p>* And, finally, <strong>the ability to say no when demands are placed on you </strong>which exceed your capacity or willingness.</p>
<p>Even if you have good self-esteem, you foundation of well-being can be , deaths, divorces, dramatic financial changes, losses and separations from loved ones. But, when we&#8217;ve had it, recovery is easier and more swift.</p>
<p><strong>Self-esteem is not the appearance of strength, but rather real inner strength.</strong></p>
<p>Is self-esteem a type of confidence? Or, it does it stem from a source deeper than your personality. Is it a spiritual quality coming from our deepest self or soul? </p>
<p><strong>One of the most in-depth thinkers and insightful spiritual authors,</strong> that teachers on the subject of self-esteem is Caroline Myss. She created the successful series, <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html">Self-Esteem: Your Fundamental Power</a>. Ms. Myss takes you to the core of self-esteem and shows giving practical ways to strengthen this bedrock of success in love and work life.</p>
<p>In her ground breaking work on <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html”> Self-Esteem: Your Fundamental Power</a>, a 4 Cd audio series, author Caroline Myss gives us new insights on this often misunderstood subject. She redefines self-esteem as an actual core power that is essential not only to loving ourselves, and functioning in the world, but even to our evolutionary progress psychologically as well as spiritually.  Caroline Myss teaches that your potential for success in any area of life will be determined by how greatly you esteem or value who you truly are. </p>
<p><strong>Caroline Myss starts at the beginning of life where the roots of Self-Esteem form in childhood</strong>. She follows the journey of building the foundation of love, happiness and self-confidence through your development process in the journey of life as it branches out into the real world of daily experience..</p>
<p>Self-esteem affects your love relationship in a profound and dramatic way. But, she explores how it impacts your finances, friendships, marital relationships and even the all encompassing area of spirituality  Caroline Myss illustrates in detail the incredible changes that come when we nourish this life-giving force of self-esteem. </p>
<p><strong>Building on her previous, revolutionary bestsellers </strong> <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00536d.html">Why People Don&#8217;t Heal and How They Can</a>, <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/AW00581D.html"> Advanced Energy Anatomy</a> and finally <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/vt00790d.html">The Energetics of Healing, DVD.</a> In this current 4 Cd audio series on Self-Esteem,  Ms. Myss explores: </p>
<p>* How your strong self-esteem threatens other people. </p>
<p>* <strong>And why you must strengthen it anyway.</strong> </p>
<p>* How your intuition, spiritual guidance, self-healing capacity, and your self-esteem all depend on each other. </p>
<p>* <strong>PLUS special guided exercises for cultivating healthy, vibrant self-esteem, </strong>available only on this audio session.  Self-Esteem includes many other valuable tips and insights for your listening benefit. </p>
<p>How would your life change if your self-esteem improved? Myss asks. </p>
<p><strong>To increase chances of success in life you must strengthen self-esteem.</strong>  Now you can find out, with this energetic template for radiating the quiet power of your own Self-esteem. Click on this link to <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html">get your copy today </a> at 15% off  retail. </p>
<p><strong>This is one of those self-study tools you should have.</strong> When you enjoy <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html">Self-Esteem: Your Fundamental Power</a> it&#8217;s like having Caroline Myss coaching you every time you listen to her words of wisdom.   </p>
<p>Knowledge about self-esteem building is power, but the real power comes in being coached towards greater fulfillment.  When knowing transforms into applied knowledge, then you can reach the deeper levels of self-esteem.  Caroline will show you the way with in-depth answers, insights and exercises.  This series can be listened to easily while driving in the car, working out at home, or relaxing at home. </p>
<p><strong>You shouldn’t miss any opportunity to strengthen your connection to inner self-esteem,</strong> which is the foundation for better employment, loving relationships and a more fulfilling life.<a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html">Your happiness depends on your self-esteem</a>, so give yourself the gift of love by <a href="http://www.fourgates.com/aw00687d.html">ordering a copy now</a> at the sales price of $29.97. It is a small price to pay to understand how to build, maintain and strengthen Self-esteem. Invest in yourself because you&#8217;re worth it! </p>
<p>To Your Happiness and Success in Love,</p>
<p><strong>Christopher Lee May</strong></p>
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