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		<title>Healing Retreat On Art of Manifesting in Maui with Wayne Dyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How would you like to spend several days with Wayne Dyer on a life changing retreat where he teaches you about the wonderful art of bringing your visions to life? Would you like to attract more love? Do you wish to remove some obstacles to experiencing more love in your life? Then here is your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How would you like to spend several days with Wayne Dyer on a life changing retreat where he teaches you about the wonderful art of bringing your visions to life?</p>
<p>Would you like to attract more love? Do you wish to remove some obstacles to experiencing more love in your life?</p>
<p>Then here is your big chance to learn from a Master of Manifesting, Wayne Dyer.</p>
<p>Art of Manifesting takes place in Maui.  If you act right away, you can still get the Only three and a half weeks until the Wayne Dyer&#8217;s Retreat on The few remaining seats with Wayne Dyer in the most beautiful places on planet Earth &#8211; Maui?</p>
<p>It is time for a few days rest, walks on sandy beaches, beautiful sunsets and gaining wisdom about how to manifest your dreams.</p>
<p>Would there be anything better than enjoying this healing retreat with two of our most esteemed spiritual teacher Wayne Dyer?</p>
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<p>This October Wayne Dyer will be teaching about one of the hottest subjects almost everyone is concerned about, Mastering the Art of Manifestation.</p>
<p>In this critically acclaimed series, The Process of Mastering the Art of Manifestation, Dr. Wayne W. Dyer explores his most astonishing subject yet: the power of attracting your needs and desires into your life. Mastering the Art of Manifestation is an all-new weekend intensive that focuses on the ancient principle of manifesting through the timeless art of meditation. </p>
<p>Any challenges whether they are:</p>
<p>financial problems,<br />
family issues,<br />
a stubborn illness,<br />
substance abuse or addictions,<br />
career hurdles,<br />
difficult obstacles at work, or<br />
troubling relationship problems,<br />
and so on, </p>
<p>Whatever it is your struggling to overcome, Wayne Dyer&#8217;s Art of Manifesting will give you profound insights as well as actions steps to take in order to manifest your dreams.  Everyone needs a good coach, and what better coach that this master of modern wisdom.</p>
<p>Change and solutions are only a thought away. Much of the time is it just a shift in perception that opens the door to improvement.</p>
<p>Some big questions Wayne Dyer explores in Mastering the Art of Manifestation include these powerful thoughts: </p>
<p>Do you have limits in your life that prevent you from making changes or achieving your highest goals?</p>
<p>Do you love what you do, and do what you love in life?</p>
<p>Are you impatient, waiting for good things to happen?</p>
<p>How you answer these questions, and more importantly, what you do with these answers will help reveal where to go from questions to fulfillment and greater well-being.  Most of us do not realize or harness the power of our minds skillfully. Wayne Dyer will teach you some new ways to work with your mind to manifest better than you have every done before.</p>
<p>Here is a powerful testimonial I&#8217;ve read before, but still moves me each time I read it&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;For 22 years, I&#8217;d struggled with a life-threatening eating disorder, binge eating all day, everyday, and watching in silent desperation as my body began to rapidly deteriorate. Then I spent a weekend in Maui with Wayne Dyer I was engulfed by a sense of peace that I&#8217;d never known before. For once, my mind was silenced of all its negativity and I could now see so clearly. Any urge to binge had dissolved and I was immersed in the intimacy I felt with all of Life. Thank you, Wayne, for introducing me to my true nature, a loving, joyful; affectionate being that I didn&#8217;t even know existed.&#8221; S. Upshall</p>
<p>In this compelling and life-changing workshop, you&#8217;ll learn to:</p>
<p>See how everything you imagine for yourself is not only on its way already here! </p>
<p>Everything you see around you in the room you are in was first a thought. How did all of these things come into being? They began in thought first. Everything is first a thought, and then another thought, and then imagining, planning, thinking, reflecting and so forth. Do you see how this is a powerful process?</p>
<p>Note: Don&#8217;t let the title on the banner bother you, <strong>all of Wayne&#8217;s tour this year is called from Ambition to Meaning.</strong>  Tickets for all events can be found through clicking on this banner.</p>
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<p>Date: October 23rd &#8211; 24th, 2010<br />
Sponsored by: Hay House<br />
Format: Lectures &#038; Events<br />
Location: The Westin Maui Resort and Spa, Maui, Hawaii</p>
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<p>Please note all tickets must be purchased on-line to receive priority treatment. </p>
<p>As a special gift to our customers in these challenging economic times, we have are offering customers 10% off discount for tickets to this event, and all other Hay House ticketed events through December 31st, 2010 only.</p>
<p>We have set up this 10% off discount code 3061 to provide your customers with 10% off of any live Hay House sponsored event for the remaining 2010 &#8211; year (expires 12/31/2010 and can be applied to web orders only). </p>
<p>Here is what to do to secure your place in this highly sought after Manifesting workshop:</p>
<p>1. Click on the links on this page, and find the Wayne Dyer Excuses Be Gone! Maui event.</p>
<p>2. Select your ticket(s), then proceed to check out.</p>
<p>3. Copy and paste the 10% off discount code 3061 in the promo code box, then pay for your tickets.</p>
<p>To book your room please call the hotel directly at 866-716-8112 and let them know you are part of the Hay House Wayne Dyer Group. Hotel Reservation Cut-Off Date is September 18, 2010.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 16:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excuses Begone: How to Change Lifelong Thinking Habits by Wayne Dyer </p>
<p>Do you long to change your life, overcome your fears, realize your dreams, and live in the flow of universal harmony and peace? </p>
<p>Would you enjoy experiencing more love in your life?</p>
<p>Are there self-limiting beliefs you might have which are holding you back from having the relationship that you&#8217;d like to have?</p>
<p>Do you believe it is possible to experience all of the love, joy, deeper connection that you long for?</p>
<p>If you answered yes, then keep reading.  </p>
<p>In Excuses be gone you will learn how long-established habitual thoughts you may be unaware of—manifesting as excuses—keep you from becoming all that you could be. </p>
<p>Dr. Wayne W. Dyer reveals how the ancient wisdom of the Tao Te Ching changed his thoughts and his life in this empowering exploration of the dynamics of our thought process. </p>
<p>When you can let go of your excuses and retrain your thinking, you can create the life you want! Let Wayne help you align your thoughts with universal goodness and begin to live with contentment, gratitude, and awe. Discover a new way of changing old thinking habits! </p>
<p>Wayne W. Dyer, Ph.D., is an internationally renowned author and speaker in the field of self-development. He’s the author of 30 books, has created many audio programs and videos, and has appeared on thousands of television and radio shows. His books Manifest Your Destiny, Wisdom of the Ages, There’s a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem, and The New York Times bestsellers 10 Secrets for Success and Inner Peace, The Power of Intention, Inspiration, and Change Your Thoughts—Change Your Life have all been featured as National Public Television specials. </p>
<p>How to Change Lifelong Thinking Habits by Wayne Dyer will be sure to teach you how to break through any excuse to being what you want to be, feeling how you wish to feel or living the life you dream of.  Dr Dyer is funny, a warm educator and always inspirational. He is sharing the life changing message as part of the Hay House Tampa Conference called, <a href="http://http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=jhyTcwQKV/g&#038;offerid=139925.10000121&#038;type=4&#038;subid=0">I Can Do It! Tampa 2009</a>. You will have the opportunity to listen, share and participate in this life changing 4 day retreat-conference with over 35 internationally recognized new thought leaders.</p>
<p>Tampa I Can Do It Full or partial conference passes are available.</p>
<p>Dates: November 20-22, 2009</p>
<p>Additional inspirational authors who will be presenting workshops at the I Can Do It Conference retreat: </p>
<p>Louise L. Hay<br />
Byron Katie<br />
Sandra Anne Taylor<br />
Bernie S. Siegel, M.D.<br />
Cheryl Richardson<br />
Marcelle Pick<br />
Neil Einbund, Ph.D<br />
Robert Ohotto<br />
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Peggy McColl<br />
Lauren Mackler<br />
Bruce H. Lipton, Ph.D.<br />
Denise Linn<br />
David Kessler<br />
Marilyn Kagan, LCSW<br />
Eldon Taylor<br />
James F. Twyman<br />
Alberto Villoldo, Ph.D.<br />
John Holland<br />
Jean Haner<br />
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer<br />
Chris &#8220;Sparkguy&#8221; Downie<br />
Sonia Choquette<br />
 Barbara Carrellas<br />
Sylvia Browne<br />
Gregg Braden<br />
Joan Z. Borysenko, Ph.D.<br />
Colette Baron-Reid<br />
Marianne Williamson<br />
Lisa Williams<br />
Brian L. Weiss, M.D.<br />
Loretta LaRoche<br />
Caroline Sutherland<br />
Thomas Moore </p>
<p>To learn more about the I Can Do It! Tampa conference, <a href="http://http://click.linksynergy.com/fs-bin/click?id=jhyTcwQKV/g&#038;offerid=139925.10000121&#038;type=4&#038;subid=0">go here now</a> or click on the banner shown below. Register early for greater savings.  This conference is popular, and prefered seating has already sold out. General seating is still available.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love is what matters most each day of life. If we remember the Presence of Love when times are challenging, and hold in our hearts compassion for others, you can do so much in life. You are never alone &#8211; Love is always there with you. Whether you are dating on Match.com, or have found [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love is what matters most each day of life.  If we remember the Presence of Love when times are challenging, and hold in our hearts compassion for others, you can do so much in life. You are never alone &#8211; Love is always there with you.</p>
<p>Whether you are dating on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a>, or have found a love with someone that nurtures you, keep you roots in the heart of love inside you.  This is where the source of love is most stable, steady and dependable.</p>
<p>Start each day with gratitudue for all of the love, health, happiness and blessings your enjoy.  This is what sustains your connection to the love between you and your partner, your family and friends.  If you have love, you have everything. But, if you have everything but not love, then you have nothing.</p>
<p>I was watching a show called The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist with Michael J. Fox. It is airing on the TLC channel. Michael Fox  travels the globe speaking with people about the power of hope, optimism and connection to one another.  Everyone he spoke with, whether they be dairy farmers in upstate New York, playing golf with Bill Murry or standing on street corner with a upbeat black guy 2 blocks from his house (who hands out free newspapers with a wish for a great day to those entering the sub-way) or Lance Armstrong speaking about facing cancer &#8211; everyone agreed that happiness was the most important thing.  Each of them spoke about the importance of coming together, about hope, about the power of love in their lives.  </p>
<p>If you are dating on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a> you need to feel love before you can find it in others.  Love is a great magnet that draws all good things to you, and through you. I found love through Match.com but I first had to feel a deep connection within. No one can fill that hole in your heart but you, and your Higher Power, or connection to Divine Love.  It is subtle but powerful thing to consider.</p>
<p>Holding on to an optimistic view that Love is always right there on the tip of your tongue, present in your next breath, in the sunrise, in the song of birds.  When you open to the Great Love with optimism and hope, then love will find you either on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-Bj7dzYEBqNS82prVjQf2lg">Match.com</a>, or right around the corner.</p>
<p>The trick in finding love is to give love away everyday, and then it will find you. Your smile, your heart, your inner joy and good heartedness is powerful because these parts of your are connected to love energy.</p>
<p>To Loving Everyday, in Every Way,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 14:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Match.com has been a blessing when guiding my life towards finding love, affection and enriching companionship. At first, I was skeptical that one could find real love using internet dating sites like Match.com. But the measure of success is decided by the results, wouldn&#8217;t you agree? If we listen with the &#8220;ears of the heart&#8221; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw"><strong>Match.com</a> has been a blessing when guiding my life towards finding love, affection and enriching companionship. </strong> At first, I was skeptical that one could find real love using internet dating sites like <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com.</a> But the <strong>measure of success is decided by the results, wouldn&#8217;t you agree</strong>? </p>
<p>If we listen with the &#8220;ears of the heart&#8221; when meeting someone new, then yes, all good things are possible. If we listen to our hearts, then there is a knowingness that the special someone has been found. It&#8217;s a cause for a celebration. <strong>The heart always knows which way to go.</strong> The heart tells us if someone is worth investing our time, energy and life in. However, you cannot hear if the music isn&#8217;t playing for both of the partners. And, that is where <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> comes in. It gets the party started. </p>
<p>Trisha and I met through <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a>. <strong>When I met my partner on our first date, I knew there was a deep connection between us</strong>. And, she felt the same way. It took some time for that experience to sink in. But, early on our hearts knew that this was to be a real connection. Without the Match.com as a meeting ground to find one another we likely would never have met. </p>
<p><strong>Our first date was at a bookstore </strong>half way between the two of our homes. We met at a Barnes &#038; Noble for coffee at about 7 p.m. on a Wednesday evening after having visited on the phone and traded e-mails for more than a month. She had just arrived at Barnes &#038; Noble, bought herself one of those sweet, girly drinks with lots of sugar and cream on top, and sat down. I came along a few minutes later, sat down across from her and started talking to her. After only 10 minutes I cocked my head to the right and gave her a little bit of look as if to say, &#8220;hmm&#8230;something&#8217;s going on here beyond what meets the eye.&#8221; </p>
<p><strong>The first date only lasted about 10 minutes</strong> because she received a phone call from a family member urgently asking her to come home because her mother was seriously ill. It took some time to figure out what was it was that we both sensed. But in time, we began to see clearly what the heart and intuitional feelings told us all along. </p>
<p><strong>The heart was correct. </strong> How do we both know there was some connection without having experienced time together? <strong>The heart only knows. </strong> We often sense deeper truths when listening to a great person speak or while reading a book, or listening to beautiful music. These truths can always be part of the words but they can be felt were sentenced. The same kind of experience happens in dating iwth Match.com. But, it cannot happen if we are not at the party. You&#8217;ve got to get in the dating scene to play. </p>
<p><strong>There are few joys greater than finding a special partner</strong> to spend you life with. <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> did that for us. Match.com can work for you if you work it. </p>
<p><strong>Many times we don&#8217;t listen to our heart that&#8217;s when we make poor choices. </strong> It might make for better dating if we listen to the heart first, and then the head. If we combine how we feel about the person and the situation and what we logically think we should do then success if more likely. The blend of these two parts of ourselves is important, but the heart usually leads the way to the best decisions when dating or in any other major life decision. </p>
<p>Trisha and I met through Match.com</a> in 2006. If anyone asks me if match.com works I would say, yes IF you follow your heart. If you use <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> just like shopping for groceries, then you might fall into a few potholes now and then. But, if you use listen to your intuition and heart as well, then you will likely be guided to find real love, real happiness. </p>
<p>If you asked me if <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> works in helping you find happiness, love and a fulfilling relationship, I&#8217;d answer yes. </p>
<p>Wishing you happiness and love, </p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 00:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the ways to save money while dating that most of us know it is to buy in volume or in bulk. I&#8217;ve used this method for buying socks, t-shirts, groceries at Costco, so why not use a six-month program to reduce costs when dating? Investing in an on-line dating service carefully when on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>One of the ways to save money while dating that most of us know it is to buy in volume or in bulk. </strong> I&#8217;ve used this method for buying socks, t-shirts, groceries at Costco, so why not use a six-month program to reduce costs when dating?  Investing in an on-line dating service carefully when on a budget dramatically saves over buying a month-to-month.  In addition to the savings Match.com gives you a six-month guarantee which is pretty amazing. <strong>Basically, the <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> 6 Month Guarantee program says if you don&#8217;t find some as six months to give it another six months for free.</strong></p>
<p>The good news is that when dating it takes time to find a really good partner, even if they an activity partner and &#8220;dating friend.&#8221; <strong>But dating on a budget doesn&#8217;t have to break the bank.  </strong>It wise to save that hard earned cash when purchasing on-line dating services.</p>
<p>Here is how the <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> 6 Month Guarantee works.  If you don&#8217;t find someone in 6 months that you want to spend all of your quality time with, becoming monogamous, stepping back from the dating process, then you get another six months at no additional charge.</p>
<p><strong>Finding someone special and sometimes does take a  time because quality takes time.</strong> It took me more than 6 months to find my partner Trisha. But, it&#8217;s time, a small investment, and a journey worth banking on because one of life&#8217;s greatest joys is finding someone you really connect with. </p>
<p><strong>Dating on a tight budget requires us to spend our money wisely and thoughtfully.</strong> But when you have so many people to choose from as well as dozens and dozens of ways to see what level of compatibility you have, your chances are dramatically increased.  It&#8217;s better than thinking you&#8217;re going to meet someone at a bar, or your church singles group.  </p>
<p>Personally, I never found singles groups to be a good way to find a how a someone special. It seems like the same people go to the same singles groups year after year.  On a service like <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> you have a lot of fresh faces to work with.   Plus, <strong>the features which allow you to search using many types of compatibility are helpful.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Match.com is the largest in the most effective online dating I&#8217;ve found. </strong>Every year <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> has hundreds of thousands of people finding love and quality connections.   On the average, Match.com has about 20,000 people joining every day.  Those are very good odds in your favor.</p>
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<p>Here is their promise to guarantee for dating on a tight budget: If after 6 months, if not finding that someone special, or your ideal match, take another 6 months on <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com.</a>  <strong>Consider this fact &#8211; more people find love on Match.com than any other Web site</strong>, and they stand behind their service. It worked for me.</p>
<p>I personally know about 8 or 10 people who have either gotten married or have long-standing life partners they&#8217;ve met on Match.com.</p>
<p><strong>The key is finding love online is to combine your head and your heart when searching.</strong> Be sure to give people a fair chance but remember to ask those important questions about whether your core needs are being met in the relationship.</p>
<p>It takes anywhere from 3-6 months to really get to know someone well enough to see if there is lasting compatibility or deeper levels of chemistry which will last beyond the blush of animal attraction if you&#8217;re seeing them several times a week.  </p>
<p><strong>Match.com provides a safe and cost-effective way to date. </strong></p>
<p>Match.com brought into my life someone very special.  It did take quite a while the find her.  But, the journey was worth the ups and downs.  Finding someone special on a tight budget doesn&#8217;t have to be costly, but being alone has a bigger price.</p>
<p>To Your Happiness and Success in Finding True Love,</p>
<p>Christopher</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[During these tough economic times it&#8217;s important to remember that we can still have fun and even date on a tight budget. If you&#8217;re single, need companionship, and going through a financially strained time, dating is still a possibility. Even lean times require some R and R with a friendly companion. Tough times don&#8217;t equate [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During these tough economic times it&#8217;s important to remember that we can still have fun and even date on a tight budget.  If you&#8217;re single, need companionship, and going through a financially strained time, dating is still a possibility. Even lean times require some R and R with a friendly companion.  Tough times don&#8217;t equate to an absence of fun, joy, laughter, caring and friendship.</p>
<p><strong>Companionship increases our sense of well-being.</strong> Having someone to e-mail at the beginning or end of the day really starts and ends the cycle of each day with a positive energy. Loneliness is not good for us. It leads to a sense of isolation, discouragement and sometimes even low-grade depression.  </p>
<p>If you&#8217;re between relationships, between jobs, under-employed or facing cut backs then don&#8217;t be afraid to spend even a buck now and then to cultivate a new friend.  Most people are fairly understanding about what is going on economically right now. The vast majority of people in the dating world know that if you can&#8217;t afford to spend a lot on dating rituals as you once may have, that it is temporary, or not the basis for finding good companionship.  </p>
<p>Most of the people out there are understanding.  Any man or woman worth spending time with will take into account current financial trends when dating.  Simply be honest about your situation. </p>
<p><strong>Match.com has been fairly compassionate these past six months </strong>or year by offering significant discounts on their programs. Sometimes, even a one or two month membership is all it takes to meet a friend or two to spend time.  Companionship provides social and emotional fuel.  A little positive emotional energy, warmth of human companionship, a smile, a hug and affection keeps the heart strong.</p>
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<p>Of all the energies qualities experiences we can have different forms of love are the most important have in our lives. Even a smile from a stranger can be a form of love. Yet how much more uplifting encouraging it is to have some of the called in the day we think you&#8217;re kind of special.  Companionship and friendship are two of life&#8217;s greatest blessings.  These are gifts we should not deny ourselves even during difficult times.</p>
<p><strong>What I like about match.com is a gives you access to why number of parameters from which to find people of common interests.</strong> Religious and spiritual connections can be an important source of encouragement during stressful times.  Also, finding someone who liked similar physical activities like hiking, jogging, bicycling, walking, going for a swim or camping either cost little or nothing.  These are activities that don&#8217;t require a lot of money but they sure are a lot more fun when you have some to do them with.<br />
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<p><strong>It&#8217;s amazing what you can do when you get creative. </strong> Sometimes the best outings don&#8217;t cost anything, but it&#8217;s who you&#8217;re doing it with any energy between the two of you that makes it really fun and memorable.</p>
<p><strong>Get out there, and have some fun. </strong> Developing a a new friend or companion or dating right now is possible even in these lean times. Dating does not have to be expensive.</p>
<p>With love and happy wishes,</p>
<p>Christopher </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 03:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Christopher May</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite quotes of all time is, &#8220;the heart alone must not be forgotten.&#8221; This quote is taken from the book, Heart, published by Agni Yoga. The heart guides us to find real love, real happiness. The heart rules all senses with authority. And, if we listen the keys to happiness in love [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite quotes of all time is, &#8220;the heart alone must not be forgotten.&#8221; This quote is taken from the book, <em>Heart</em>, published by Agni Yoga. The heart guides us to find real love, real happiness. The heart rules all senses with authority. And, if we listen the keys to happiness in love will be ours.</p>
<p><strong>Why is the heart so important in dating?</strong></p>
<p>The heart is not just an organ.  When we use the word &#8216;heart&#8221; in this way we refer to our deepest sense of inner guidance which is part of our intuition and feeling nature. But <strong>the heart also has incredible intelligence </strong>as well. When dating, your heart is the most reliable source of information for who to spend time with, and who to let go of.</p>
<p>Of course, there are hunches or feelings that we have about things, such as, when you&#8217;re driving and you feel like the stop light is going to change.  Or, when you feel like you should turn left and center right winger lost while driving a car to a new friend&#8217;s house. Hunches or feelings are not really intuition, they&#8217;re more related to instinct, which is part of our left over from our animal ancestry.</p>
<p><strong>Heart really means a higher form of intelligence which guides you through life</strong>, keeping you safe, and acting as a soulful compass.  The heart gives us our moral compass, as well as our spiritual guidance and personal compass.  The heart is connected to conscience, which is our inner sense of what is right and good between ourselves and our fellow man. The heart always knows what is right when choosing to partner. When using dating sites like Match.com, let your heart and mind work together in order to guide you towards lasting love.</p>
<p>I find it interesting that many times <strong>when we begin dating there is a feeling of knowing when you meet someone that they&#8217;re the right one for you. </strong> How does that work? </p>
<p><strong>The heart is part of our intuitional apparatus.</strong>  Intuition is sometimes called &#8220;straight knowledge&#8221; because this higher sense knows things before they happen.  It&#8217;s knowledge without sequential logic or a series of experiences that add up to an understanding of something we&#8217;ve gone through. Intuition is not linear like logic or life experience.</p>
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<p>I met my partner Trisha through <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a>.  But it was heart that guided me towards whether this connection was the right one.  </p>
<p><strong>On our first date there was a moment of ah ha</strong>.  There was a growing sense that was not yet clear to the mind. The message was coming through, as if to say, &#8220;Yes, there is something&#8217;s going on beyond us which was not apparent to the naked eye. Pay attention!&#8221;  </p>
<p><strong>The date lasted maybe 10 minutes at best because she was called away on an emergency</strong>.  In that short 10 minute meeting the heart knew the story.  It took time to play out, but there was this knowingness almost immediately.  Have you ever experienced that?  We knew that <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> was a good way to find potential partners.</p>
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<p>Yes, it does take time to understand what the heart knows in seconds. But if we are patient, then in time we began to see clearly what the heart and intuitional feelings are telling us in each moment.  <strong>The heart is always correct in guiding us. </strong></p>
<p>How do we both know there was some connection without having experienced time together?  <strong>The heart only knows. </strong> We often sense deeper truths when listening to the heart, but you still need all of the practical ways to connect.  That&#8217;s where Match.com comes in.  <strong>We used Match.com, and many couples I know have enjoyed great success while dating </strong>because of <a href="http://www.match.com/matchus/cp.aspx?cpp=/en-us/partner/affiliate/affiliate_reg_7days.html&#038;lpid=girl&#038;trackingid=522990&#038;bannerid=652572&#038;siteID=jhyTcwQKV_g-tYWe9a.uI71FEk3g6uLxqw">Match.com</a> connections. Common sense has to become part of the process as well.  But when you listen with your heart, great things come about. The thing is, <strong>don&#8217;t hesitate after that heart knowingness takes place, act on it</strong>!</p>
<p>The same kind of experience happens in dating.  <strong>Many times we don&#8217;t listen to our heart, and that&#8217;s we get into trouble. </strong> It might make for dating choices because of what we think we need or think we should do.  It might be better to combine how we feel about the person and the situation and what we logically think we should do.  The blend of these two parts of ourselves is important, but the heart usually leads to the best decisions when dating or in any other major life decision.</p>
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<p>To Your Happiness,</p>
<p>Christopher Lee May</p>
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